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Do you just have bad luck, or is there something else? 


Whether you’re in the same relationship, or keep hoping from relationship to relationship, the situation always repeats itself. You keep getting cheated on and you don’t really understand why. Well here are a few reasons that might help you break the cycle.


5 reasons why you keep getting cheated on: 


1. You keep falling for the same kind of person. 


You may be attracted to a certain personality trait that keeps on disappointing you in the long run. No matter how many relationships you get into, you always end up with the same kind of person who is likely to cheat. Try date someone who is a bit different than what you are used to and you might see genuine change.


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2. You give your bae too many chances. 


When someone cheats on you, you shouldn’t let them off easy. This way they can be more cautious next time. However, if you continue to let them do what they want without any repercussions, then they’ll continue to disrespect you.


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3. You don’t expect commitment for yourself. 


It may not be intentional, but something that may have sprang from previous failed relationships. Because of what you’ve faced in the past, you may not have high standards of how someone should treat you, and as a result you continue falling into these circumstances.


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4. You may not be very interesting. 


As hard as it may be to accept, you may be a bit dull, and when there is boredom in a relationship, cheating isn’t very far off. Try solve this by participating in more activities with your bae, it could be watching a series or exercising together.


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5. You are a control freak. 


Your bae may want to rebel by cheating on you.


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Remember being cheated on isn’t your fault, however it’s up to you to change the factors that may cause it, whether it’s the kind of people you attract, or how you treat yourself


When the last time was your man did something special for you and it wasn’t valentines’ day, your birthday or an anniversary?

It is a damn shame that most Kenyan men are still of the opinion that romance is lame and that real men aren’t romantic. I don’t know who bewitched them to be so anti-romance!


Women love it when men do romantic things for them but most women rarely get any romance from their men unless their men feel obligated by a calendar.


When the last time was your man did something special for you and it wasn’t valentines’ day, your birthday or an anniversary? The other thing that hinders men from attempting any romantic gestures is they think that romance requires a lot of work and is expensive.


Nothing could be further from the truth!  Romance doesn’t require a lot of work and it doesn’t have to be expensive if you don’t have the extra cash to burn. Here are a few romantic gestures you could surprise your partner with any day to keep the romance alive.


Random texts


There is nothing that I love more in a relationship than sweet random texts from my man letting me know that he loves me and he is thinking about me. It literally costs you nothing and will make her day so I wonder why more men don’t do it.


Surprise her with a random text today when she is at work and I guarantee you it will be remembered for years to come.


Cook for her


Cooking for your woman is hands down the most romantic thing a man can do. It doesn’t have to a complicated gourmet dish either. Just cook whatever it is that you know how to cook well, thrown in a bottle of wine and you will be good to go.


However, extra points to the men who go out of their way to learn how to prepare something special.


Preparing a romantic dinner for your partner is an excellent way to show her how much you love and appreciate her and besides, it is hard not to fall in love with a man who is handy in the kitchen. So, whether it is new love interest or a long-term partner, if you want her to swoon over you, get in the kitchen!


Take her on a trip


I know that the menfolk are already groaning about this one, thinking about all the expenses of going on a vacation. Who said a holiday needs to be expensive. Sure, you can fly her to the Maldives or the Seychelles if you have the means but guess what?


A weekend getaway to the next town will be just as romantic and she will appreciate it just as much as a luxury vacation in some tropical island on the other side of the world.


A simple trip, even as cheap as a camping trip is a great way to show your partner that you care and a great opportunity to spend quality time together and reconnect.


Little gifts out of the blue


It doesn’t have to be her birthday for you to appreciate your lady with a gift. You could be walking around and see something that you think she would like and get it for her. Again, it doesn’t have to be expensive gifts like designer perfumes and shoes.


I once had a boyfriend who knew I liked mystery novels so whenever he would find mystery novels, he would buy them for me. It was so romantic. So, find out the little things your partner likes and surprise her with them.


If you just recently got single, or have been for a while, you may not have someone to have sex with.


Which is fine, it’s not necessary to have sex anyways, you can survive without having it with these easy steps.

Here’s fun ways to survive being celibate: 

1. Get vibrators and toys.

Enjoy yourself with a little help.

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2. Read romantic novels or erotica.

Stimulate your mind and your body with a good story.

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3.  Eat chocolate.

It’s tasty and it increases serotonin in the brain, a neurotransmitter responsible for better mood, sleep, and reduction of anxiety.

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4. Watch porn sometimes.

If it helps with not having sex.

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5. Distract yourself by focusing on work or on a fun activity.

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6. Don’t tempt yourself by entertaining any guy who wants a casual relationship.

Especially if you’d like a serious relationship

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